I Met This Wonderful Girl

Happy New Year! I know..I know.. it is late to say Happy New Year to all of you. My apology for that.

To me, year 2007 is the most meaningful year. Many bad things and beautiful things had come into my life last year. It is just like a dream.

2007 started with a request for divorce from my ex-wife. To be exact, it happened at the end of February 2007. I did not expect something like that would happen to a nice guy like me ( ha ha...). So,...I began my new life...alone! I felt devastated, of course. I think, those of you who have experienced divorce would know what I am talking about.

However, in October 2007 I met a nice girl. No, not a nice girl. In fact, she turned out to be a very nice girl. A special one. I couldnt help falling in love with her. Here is her picture.

What do you think? :)

So, believe it or not, I feel like I am turning 17 again!

2007 ended with beautiful things because of Jenny, the girl that I am going to marry real soon! Before I go, here is another picture of her and me and her nephew..

Happy New Year......

Best of PAUL SIMON

A New Friend

So... she is my new friend...

Her name is Ki Kin...

She doesn't care whether it is raining or not...

When ever I come home, she always greets me with a smile

It's Your Fault!!!

I remember that in the past I often blamed people for many bad things I experienced in life.

"Because of you I am now suffering.."
"Because of you we are now divorced.."
"Because of you I lost my job.."
"It's all your fault!!"

This is the advice that my friend gave me:

When you are driving your car and you see the fuel indicator turns red (indicating that the fuel tank is almost empty), what do you do? Do you start blaming your car because it uses too much patrol? Or, you start looking for a Petrol Station to fill up your fuel tank?

Who will suffer if you keep blaming your car instead of buying some more fuel?

If you keep blaming other people, you are the only person who will suffer.

Now I can feel the difference. I feel happier because I stop blaming people. Instead, I tell myself that I am responsible for anything that has happened to me